Tuesday, October 15, 2013

The Love Story-Dating

Now since we already know that we are going to get married from our talk on the first date we just wanted to have fun. Jason had stayed the whole week and a day out in California. We literally went on a date every day and were hanging out pretty much all day long (mostly after I finished up with work, so that Dave can at least get some time with Jason)

This is in mixed order; but
Monday-cleaned out his car.
Tuesday-our first date.
Wednesday-Institute and hanging out at Dave's house.
Thursday-Farmer's Market.
Friday-Charle Browns and Cake Balls.
Saturday-Temple and Babysitting.

I'm going to start with Institute; As Jason and I were sitting in the front row, I had gotten up to use the restroom, when I got back, I saw a little note that Jason wrote in my notes; "I love you!"
I smiled big!! It was only our fourth day!!
But after our farmer's Market, we were spending time at Dave's house. Being VERY comfortable with ourselves. As Dave took his date home, Jason and I talked and I ended up saying "I love you"
Now onto the other days.

 Babysitting. I knew how he was like with children. Double check!! He will still be an amazing father someday.


Cleaned out his car after his long drive from New Mexico to Utah to California.




Went on a double date with Dave and Mistie at Charlie Browns (Their first date-and later got married!!)


Double date with Dave and Kailie to the Farmer's Market and other places...




We even went to the LA Temple (Well I went inside as he walked around, he didn't have his recommend with him)

RANDOM VIDEOS
Driving to go pick up Kailie for our double date. Dave was in the back laughing at us.

Dave and Jason playing a Parachute song

Jason being..well Jason.

Jason and I had a blast with each other the time that he did stay. He even stayed when Dave left. But there was a time that he really had to go home. To tell his parents and family all about me!! That day that he had left to go home, my ex and his ex fiancé broke up. Heavenly Father sure had a plan for me. Jason had brought something up about that situation; Heavenly Father knew me and knew just the right time to have Jason in my life.

About a week later I got to spend time with my ex and it was actually pretty relaxing and just a time to have our last word and to just talk. First we went to target, we both needed to get some Christmas gifts for family members. I got a gift or two for Jason, which I knew that my ex would help me a lot with this, because they were alike in some ways, he would know what to get him. Which were PERFECT gifts for Jason!! A tie rotator; since on his mission he had 200+ ties. Doesn't have that much anymore, but still!! and then straw glasses. Which Jason LOVED!! Afterwards my ex and I did other stuff...? Don't remember what, but we did go out for lunch and we talked some more. He told me that he loved how open I was, sometimes TOO open. But he still loved that about me. Which made me think a bit, because it was random. It sure did make me feel good about myself, because when Jason was around-I was very open with him. I told him EVERYTHING in my life...well the major points, which my ex knew about my life too. He also told me what had happened with his brake up. It was just great closure. I guess that we both needed. Love being with him and loved spending time with his family. But it was time to move on, and to wish each other the best of luck in our future. He also gave me some great tips for when I'll be going on my mission (I hadn't made the decision if I was going on my mission or not yet) I knew that Heavenly Father knew just what we both needed, and I know that He wanted my ex to be in my life for so long, because so I can see who I wanted in a husband. There were a lot of qualifications in my ex that Jason has. But with Jason there were a lot that made him just perfect for me!! and me perfect for him!! There were a lot of things that my ex didn't have that Jason does have. Being with my ex, made me miss Jason a whole lot more.

(To Be Continued)

1 comment:

  1. Love that you have those cute short videos. Wish that I would have taken some!

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