Sunday, October 27, 2013

Advice

    Jason and I have been married for a year and almost 3 months. Now we aren't a pro with marriage, honestly NO ONE is!! However many years you have been married for. Many marriages are different.
Some people they have experienced things more than other couples. Some people say that they are pretty expert on that experience that they may have dealt with, I can believe that. I do love hearing how they have dealt with it. I may even try it, but if it doesn't work-well I will continue to find a way to work out our marriage in our way.

If anyone is even getting what I'm trying to say.

Jason and I have experienced a lot of things since we have been married, some before we even gotten married. Only a few we've experienced it more and more times, and you know what I'm okay with that, because that means that sometime we will get a lot better at it. It gives each of us time and practice.

Each couples are different, each individual are different than their spouse! Growing up differently from each other.

*He grew up in Idaho, I grew up in California.
*His modest is a bit different than what my modest is.


Here are some advice I will give some of you about anything that both Jason and I have experienced with a few times:


  • It's okay to go to bed angry with your spouse, but DO pray and say I love you to each other before going to bed. (If you desire to sleep in separate beds also) I am okay with that too, it's up to you what helps. Jason and I done both. But ALWAYS pray together and say I love you.
  • Bring Heavenly Father into your lives with you are having trouble and are struggling with anything.
  • Give 10% of your income to others and spend 10% of your income on yourself! Jason and I give to the church and we put the other into our savings account, saving up for a house. You'll feel good about yourselves. Helping others and helping yourselves on actually saving up for just yourself.
That's all that I have to say and that is on my mind right now.


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